October 21, 2016

Why is your outfit considered too much?

You get dressed and then you ask yourself : "isn't it a bit too much?". You'd like to know when you're crossing the line and what to avoid not to fall into the "too much trap". The answer is so simple... everything is bullshit. Since when do you have to dress for someone or in order to fit the standards? At least one person is going to judge you no matter what you do, so stop all of these shitty stereotypes and do you! Life is too short to care.
TOO SHORT?
Then what? If you want to wear short shorts or a mini skirt, then go for it! And what if we see your panties or your butt cheeks? Did somebody ever died because he saw butt cheeks? No? Great. People need to stop about being so judgmental. If someone feels perfectly confident about wearing something short, then cool! Stop being so obsessed seriously...


TOO PROVOCATIVE?
Then what? Oh my god, you don't wear a bra and your nipples are showing! Are you that scared of nipples? Are you freaking out everytime you see a man shirtless? No? Great. Everybody has the right to wear (or not to wear) what they want.


TOO SEXY?
Then what? Be careful your bra is showing through! Do you feel bad everytime you see a girl in a bikini? No? Great. Bras are part of fashion too : they are an accessory that can make an outfit pop. It's only a piece of fabric, stop it already.

TOO HIGH?
Then what? She looks like a prostitute with her high heels! Does height change something about a person? No? Great. Heels make the legs pretty and toned, why should we give up on them? You want to wear heels? Wear them, no matter how high they are and even if you don't know how to walk with them.



Vulgarity is not about the clothes you wear, but about your attitude.

16 comments:

  1. Great examples and I 100% agree that people will always judge, so wear what you want!

    http://www.myclusterofthoughts.com

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    1. Happy to know that you 100% agree! It's so important!
      Have a nice day!

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  2. i was just nodding along while reading this post because i agree with every word. i honestly dont get ppl who give others a tough time because of what they're wearing, i mean seriously?! well written Laura, and a much needed boost of confidence for me to just do whatever the hell I want haha!

    Aditi | https://lifeasaditi.wordpress.com

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    1. I really had to point these things out because I can't believe that some people are so judgmental about what others wear...
      I'm glad you liked it and that it inspires you!

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  3. Loved reading this, totally agree. Please check out my latest post on Halloween outfit ideas!

    Kisses xo | From Aliona With Love

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    Twitter @alionawithlove

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    1. Happy to know that you agree with my ideas!
      Have a wonderful day!

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  4. That was really well written! Life is too short to be judging other people :)

    www.thesundaymode.com

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  5. I love this! I completely agree that we shouldn't be afraid of showing our body or expressing ourselves the way we feel. Amazing post
    Dora
    http://www.adropofindigo.com/

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    1. Thanks!
      Or even if you don't want to reveal your body, it's your choice. Whatever you'd like to do, nobody has the right to judge you. :)

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  6. People shouldn't stop others from wearing what they want, it's a choice. The same applies for people who want to cover up... the same goes for them if they don't want to reveal their figure.
    Aleeha xXx
    http://www.halesaaw.com/

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    1. That's exactly it!
      One has to respect the choice of the other. :)

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  7. What a great post and I have to agree 100%! I always wear what I like without over-thinking it and we must always do whatever makes us happy! :)

    Yiota
    PinkDaisyLoves

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    1. Happiness is the key!
      Have a wonderful day!

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  8. Thank you thank you thank youuuu for writing this post!!!!! You speak my mind. Everything you say is so right! On ne devrait pas s'habiller en fonction de ce que les autres aiment ou pas.

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    1. TELLEMENT !
      J'avais vraiment besoin de l'écrire une fois pour que les gens le lisent ! ;)
      Passe une belle soirée !

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