You get dressed and then you ask yourself : "isn't it a bit too much?". You'd like to know when you're crossing the line and what to avoid not to fall into the "too much trap". The answer is so simple... everything is bullshit. Since when do you have to dress for someone or in order to fit the standards? At least one person is going to judge you no matter what you do, so stop all of these shitty stereotypes and do you! Life is too short to care.
Then what? If you want to wear short shorts or a mini skirt, then go for it! And what if we see your panties or your butt cheeks? Did somebody ever died because he saw butt cheeks? No? Great. People need to stop about being so judgmental. If someone feels perfectly confident about wearing something short, then cool! Stop being so obsessed seriously...
Then what? Oh my god, you don't wear a bra and your nipples are showing! Are you that scared of nipples? Are you freaking out everytime you see a man shirtless? No? Great. Everybody has the right to wear (or not to wear) what they want.
Then what? Be careful your bra is showing through! Do you feel bad everytime you see a girl in a bikini? No? Great. Bras are part of fashion too : they are an accessory that can make an outfit pop. It's only a piece of fabric, stop it already.
Then what? She looks like a prostitute with her high heels! Does height change something about a person? No? Great. Heels make the legs pretty and toned, why should we give up on them? You want to wear heels? Wear them, no matter how high they are and even if you don't know how to walk with them.
Vulgarity is not about the clothes you wear, but about your attitude.